Imagine you walk into a room full of women and you see a beautiful woman. Why should I give her any? if they want to meet so i can give them their stuff then that's great. We had a good relationship that turned sour quickly. Reasons why your ex is ignoring you They still love you. My brother doesn't talk to me hardly either anymore. There is nothing else I can do. Photos of her family. This could be for all different reasons. skynet74, All that matters is that I have a heart which is why I don't want to throw away her pictures that should mean something to her. Maybe I should just start treating her like garbage and throw the pics in the dumpster. Just remember to keep an open mind. WHAT'S HER PROBLEM? You want some sort of validation, I believe, or at least friendly terms. So if she responds I'll just go from there. My ex BF is ignoring me because he’s upset about something. they like to hang out. I think you have to do no contact forever now. Maybe she has done other things that make you say that, but I don't think this instance illustrates your point. I noticed this happened after I pulled I’ve never seen her like this. Yes it is hurtful that she does not respond. Guess what? In my last email I sent, I was frustrated that she never responds. Besides.... she was still in Single mode and wanted to sow her wild oats. It buys you time for her feelings to run their course, which makes bad memories of you in the relationship fade. I had not contacted her since last August. It could be for a myriad of reasons, she may not be holding a grudge at all. Maybe her new boyfriend requested that she not respond to you? That would be nice. March 27, 2007 in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships. Some things are best left alone, forever. That would be nice. (I am a college student and ex girlfriend is a college student also. Could be a number of things, but her silence says enough. BTW, if that is your avatar, you are very cute. So I saw no harm in saying a friendly hello a few times a year. Ex is married and still contacting me after years I don’t get it? Of course your not. Well her phone number and email address were all deleted long ago. How about being a mature adult and actually mouthing those words in an adult conversation? So we both moved into our own apartments. She also told me that she had been messing around with some guy hours before I came over. I cannot even begin to imagine what it would feel like as my break up was 3 years. I think you have to do no contact forever now. I see the sister thing has already been addressed, my bad! But I still absolutely hate being ignored and treated so rudely. I want some peace of mind and not have to feel hated. I had not contacted her since last August. (I … I just found 400 photos of hers that I didn't know I still had. If she suddenly became single tomorrow I bet she would be contacting me within a month to apologize. They’re Looking For An Ego Boost. I'm sure she reads it, but she refuses to respond! Actually funnily enough I’ve unintentionally collected quite a bit of furniture and stuff from different ex’s, as I came to this country with just about nothing, and they thought I could make good use of it, and didn’t want it back during the breakup and then went into NC. anyway, with me, i have always not wanted nothing to do with my exes once I am over them. I'll make this quick. The guy I was with caused a lot of problems in our relationship and after 8 years it ended. The time after a break up can be a confusing and harrowing experience to get through with your emotions in tact. That brief note I received from her sister cleared up a lot of confusion. Trust me I got mad at her when I came up to MA a few weeks ago. She has a BF and I know they are happy. I Have come out of a relationship after 12 years and 3 children. It sure puts a nice little ending on things. That sealed the deal. its hard because to be honest, i would love to stay friends with my ex once he gets over the hurt, but I dont think its gonna happen cause slowly we are ending up hating each others guts. For much of our 16 years, I could apparently do little that was "right" in her eyes - and I "did not fit her image of a man." Luckily, he got it at the time. I've made it clear to her that I didn't want her back. you seem to have moved on and know its not about getting back together, but maybe she feels like you are still "harbouring" some sort of feelings towards her and thats why she is not responding. My ex and I were together for about a year and a half not very long but we spent a lot of time together. She moved out. What was that all about??? John if you didn't throw away the pictures can you please send them to me? I can think of only two reasons an ex would avoid any contact in the way you describe, even after years have gone by. Apparently my ex is not the same person anymore. If she contacts you she contacts you. Ask yourself why you are really contacting her? I wasn't a horrible boyfriend and she wasn't a horrible girlfriend either. I was with a girl for 2 years, she dumped me, 6 months later called and wanted to be "friends" even cried in front me asking for a friendship, I told her I couldn't, it was too hard. I just got a note from my ex-girlfriends sister. Unfortunately, the knowledge that you’re there still pining away for them (whether your are or not) can be just the springboard that they need to feel good about themselves. I have occasionally emailed her simply because I have a heart. I just got a note from my ex-girlfriends sister. I've moved on and I'm not looking for ANYTHING from her. Besides.... she was still in Single mode and wanted to sow her wild oats. Men on the other hand are builders and we build foundations for our familly, build a live togehter, roof over our heads, build memories. We were together for 10 years. But unfortunately you cannot control how she responds. So it may be that he’s come to terms with the end of your relationship and put you past behind. WOMEN are emotional creatures and for an insane reason they listen to their emotons OF THE PRESENT. She doesn't give me any respect. John if you didn't throw away the pictures can you please send them to me? It’s important to keep in mind that he’s your ex boyfriend, not your current one. forget your ex.. her sister sounds nice! There is nothing else I can do. This is no longer about getting back together. I think you need to let her go. I know that Jenn doesn't want me to talk to you, but I Don't care anymore what she says. They treated you very badly during the relationship or marriage. BREAKUPS SURE SUCK. However each and every time my mail gets totally ignored. Imagine you walk into a room full of women and you see a beautiful woman. During that month, we saw each other frequently due to camps and stuff. But our relationship was still unrepairable at that point. I bet her sister feels the same way. Found out a year later, she was married. Anyway... it doesn't matter anymore. OR she could have changed her e-mail address. Well I accepted her choice, and now I have a nice new towel and DVD’s (I threw out the toothbrush and her dog food). Afterwards, he replied to my igstory and started to initiate contact w me. Hey Skynet,-- You said you had some contact with her sister (and other girlfriends), any chance you can pass the photo collection off to them? I am wondering if she broke up with me because she likes this guy more OR according to her she claims that the guy has a crush on her. He blamed me and said he had been unhappy for years. Is this a lifelong grudge? I bet her sister feels the same way. Whereas we cant do that. You keep pushing and you aren't respecting teh clear boundary she's setting to be left alone. Why is it so important to get those pictures back to her anyway? One of a kind photos that can't be replaced. She lied and cheated. I’m here to tell you that this is a BIG opportunity for you …and it’s something you shouldn’t ruin. One of a kind photos that can't be replaced. Whenever I send her something I just go by memory. Anyway, keep the photos, or burn the photos, but she probably doesn’t want them back. Of course your not. Actually alot of my family got mad at her. WOMEN are emotional creatures and for an insane reason they listen to their emotons OF THE PRESENT. Resorting to magical thinking is one way that people hold out hope that their ex still loves them after a breakup. I don't want anything to do with her from here to eternity. Yeah I've done the hard receipt thing. That brief note I received from her sister cleared up a lot of confusion. What was that all about??? That unfortunate situation ruined our 10 years together. I found out because when I came over, she told me that we shouldn't be seeing each other. I don't know why Jenn is the way she is. If not, then perhaps she wasn't the girl you thought she was. Apparently my ex is not the same person anymore. I hope one day my silence sends her a message. ... You don’t want to have to go through the next few years feeling as though you have to hide your relationships from an ex and I … Maybe her new boyfriend requested that she not respond to you? I don't know what to believe. she obviously didn’t care about those items. You said you talked to her sister in your original post. There is residual anger from the breakup. Maybe she DOES NOT want to ever see the pictures as they’ll bring back memories. Ex still totally ignores me after 3 years! It was not in my intention, but it just somehow happened like that during the break up. I know you are only wanting to do the right thing. Hard lines...but it's the only way I can move on and look forward. You did not notice her because you have no emotional interest in her..... Period, thats it ! It's been 3 years bro. At least someone wants the dead brother's pictures! I will never initiate contact with my exgirlfriend ever again. However, to this day she attempts to contact me and remain friends. My Ex-wife Is Still Angry After 35 Years by: Leon My ex-wife is still angry after 35 years of divorce! ), --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------. By I don't feel quite so bad anymore, and now I also know what to so with the pictures. My ex-girlfriend and I were together for 10 years. terms of trying to rekindle the interest of an ex is to hound her with calls and messages Especially when you've done them no wrong, it just doesn't make any sense does it? Seeing your ex’s name pop up on your phone can produce a visceral reaction, like the one Glantz mentioned above. In any event, you are absolutely correct. After three years I feel that she could have at least spoken to me by now. (Good Luck!!! She is starting to turn into my mother when it comes to guys. Can you maybe mail the photos directly to her? I am wondering why she did this and also is it okay to call her? If she contacts you she contacts you. forget your ex.. her sister sounds nice! You did not notice her because you have no emotional interest in her..... Period, thats it ! I know you are only wanting to do the right thing. So if she responds I'll just go from there. She actually said that to me - … Ask yourself why you are really contacting her? later: 1. Perhaps the biggest benefit of ignoring your ex-girlfriend is that it buys you time. She is totally ICE COLD! okay, me and this guy dated for a year and a half and we had our ups and downs but were overall a very strong couple.. we got into some silly argument and i just stopped talking to him and that was basically our break up. Mine left me after 40 years, for a woman 25 years younger. I just want to know what to do with all these pictures she forgot? just send her one last one saying "ok i take it you dont wanna stay in touch at any level, was just letting you know about the photos. I know I was the same, my ex fiancée wanted to give me back an engagement ring, at the time I couldn’t accept it back as I was in denial, and now we went into NC, so she’s still got the ring, I don’t know if I ever want it back, maybe later as a memory, but not now. Imagine you are sorting through some rather complicated feelings you have for your ex-husband. My ex-girlfriend and I were together for 10 years. After not seeing, or speaking for 3-4 years, I sent her a simple "Congratulations on the marriage and baby! But I don't want to feel like lifelong enemies either. If she suddenly became single tomorrow I bet she would be contacting me within a month to apologize. Silence could be a way of saying that she does not want to engage with you any more. I don't want anything to do with her from here to eternity. Who knows? In order to get back in your good graces, they might be apologizing a lot more now than they did in your relationship. I don't need to be a jerk just because she acted like one. Are you mad...She likes you, your nuts for not feeling the same !!! Obviously the relationship is over. At least someone wants the dead brother's pictures! After that, i messaged him that i will wait for him and went NC for a month. My X and I parted ways last summer...she chose the breakup (though I sure made her decision easier...I blew it). She hasn't read it yet. I have occasionally emailed her simply because I have a heart. In the end material assets aren’t that important, and people often put more weight on the emotional implications of the items, or in breaking NC for one last meeting etc. Well.. that's awful.. but i'm glad you got some closure and are able to send the pics to her sis. its hard because to be honest, i would love to stay friends with my ex once he gets over the hurt, but I dont think its gonna happen cause slowly we are ending up hating each others guts. Hello.. An ex of 15 years, no contact for 10. he moved abroad is back and has contacted me. You want some sort of validation, I believe, or at least friendly terms. How can someone act like that never meant anything to them? ), --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------. That sealed the deal. But I found her myspace account and dropped her a brief note the other night. In addition, she went out to Six Flags with him and his friends last week. I just want to know what to do with all these pictures she forgot? Let me give you the simple definition. I challange anywoman, with honesty to dispute this. One of the likeliest reasons why your ex boyfriend is ignoring you is because he’s also still trying to move on himself. Most of the relationship was happy, until the day I found out she had a crush on some dude at work. I would say from how angry and controlling you sound, you appear to have lost perspective. Once every 4 or 5 months I drop her a friendly email just to say hi and to let her know how things are with me. I am a confused individual after my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. who knows in a few years when we've both moved on and the wounds have healed i wouldent mind having the engagement ring back. She'd even like to be friendly acquaintances. you seem to have moved on and know its not about getting back together, but maybe she feels like you are still "harbouring" some sort of feelings towards her and thats why she is not responding. who knows in a few years when we've both moved on and the wounds have healed i wouldent mind having the engagement ring back. I don't feel quite so bad anymore, and now I also know what to so with the pictures. They didn't have a good relationship when they were married but after separate, they became a good friend. It was her anger, in large part, that helped drive me away originally. I get totally ignored again and again and again! and forget about it. I understand your frustration that you can spend 10 years of your life with someone and although things have not worked out in the long run, you can't even remain on friendly terms. A year later, she called, wanting to "meet up for drinks". And that is why we look at the time together as having meaning and value. This could be because of her involvement with the boyfriend, or perhaps she fears you won't get over her and she has no feelings towards you. Your stomach drops, your heart starts beating faster, your palms get sweaty. Obviously not. But I found her myspace account and dropped her a brief note the other night. So when a relationship ends and the emotional interest is gone so to does the desire to communicate, or bother with the person. There could be all manner of reasons why she does not contact you, perphaps she feels resentment torwards you that things have not worked out the way she planned ( even though you are not to blame), perhaps its guilt over the break-up, perhaps she feels that you may want to get back together even though you have stated you don't. In any event, you are absolutely correct. In the end material assets aren’t that important, and people often put more weight on the emotional implications of the items, or in breaking NC for one last meeting etc. But it's not worth the hassle and mental strain, is it? But I later found out it was actually more than a friendship. my thoughts exactly....why are you emailing her? She just turned into a jerk three years ago and she clearly hasn't changed at all since. So I saw no harm in saying a friendly hello a few times a year. I have a new girlfriend who I'm happy with anyway. I challange anywoman, with honesty to dispute this. I definitely don't want to be in My ex-girlfriends life if I'm not welcome. Now why did you not talk to the girl in the corner who idolises you, why did you not notice her, why not talk to her, beginning a relationship with her ??? I was dating this guy too.. and he just suddenly wouldn't even answer my phone calls. Tracey Cox reveals signs your ex is still in love with you. She is totally ICE COLD! I wasn't a horrible boyfriend and she wasn't a horrible girlfriend either. But it's not worth the hassle and mental strain, is it? I haven't spoken to her sister in a while. Is it because you are thinking about her, is it because she was the last person whom you loved very dearly? Ever noticed how a woman falls instantly in love or leaves a man because "he was not treating me right" In other words, her feelings at that point, regardless of the past. She has a BF and I know they are happy. About a year ago, I got a text from an ex telling me he wanted my advice on something. So I wanted to share. So when a relationship ends and the emotional interest is gone so to does the desire to communicate, or bother with the person. So we both moved into our own apartments. Anyway, keep the photos, or burn the photos, but she probably doesn’t want them back. but he told me that his ex is his best friend. Some things are best left alone, forever. OR she could have changed her e-mail address. My brother doesn't talk to me hardly either anymore. We Lived together almost the entire time. maybe she just feels uncomfortable? How can someone act like that never meant anything to them? Perhaps your X has chosen a similar path...I don't know. Your motivation isn't completely innocent. But I don't want to feel like lifelong enemies either. I haven't spoken to her sister in a while. Hope all is well!". Photos of her graduation that her classmates personally signed to her. She's 34 years old. This is no longer about getting back together. But recently I discovered irreplacable photos she left behind and thought I should let her know. ... Stephanie Seymour's son Harry Brant dies at age 24 of accidental drug overdose after years-long battle with addiction I feel for you. Since she cheated on me shouldn't I be the one holding a grudge? This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies. Is it because you are thinking about her, is it because she was the last person whom you loved very dearly? I'm sure that didn't help my case, but at this point it really makes no difference. Anyway... it doesn't matter anymore. Now the ball is in her court. I'd like her to respect it. That she is not interested in any sort of friendship with you. But recently I discovered irreplacable photos she left behind and thought I should let her know. Men on the other hand are builders and we build foundations for our familly, build a live togehter, roof over our heads, build memories. I was dating this guy too.. and he just suddenly wouldn't even answer my phone calls. I've more than given her a chance. Her boyfriend comes before her family and that is pissing everyone off. You want to get to know her, you have a positive emotional interest in her. He is very open about it and he wants me to meet his ex. I know I was the same, my ex fiancée wanted to give me back an engagement ring, at the time I couldn’t accept it back as I was in denial, and now we went into NC, so she’s still got the ring, I don’t know if I ever want it back, maybe later as a memory, but not now. However after zero response I emailed her sister. 15 Reasons Why You Need To Ignore Your Ex Forever. I'm certain that she only finds it so easy to ignore me because she has another man in her life. WHY. Shortly after that she met a new guy who she has been with ever since. You said you talked to her sister in your original post. However each and every time my mail gets totally ignored. This can be if there was a lot of fighting during or after the breakup or if the relationship itself had a lot of bickering, fighting, and negative interaction. I don't know what to believe. She lied and cheated. The woman I fell in love with 10 years ago has clearly left the planet. Trust me I got mad at her when I came up to MA a few weeks ago. I don't know your ex, but from what I'm reading, you want something from her that she doesn't want to give. I will never initiate contact with my exgirlfriend ever again. Isn't that nice? This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies. Maybe hearing from you brings back feelings of guilt over how she ended your relationship? It seems incredibly imature to me. It's been 3 years bro. So it's clear that we've both moved on. We Lived together almost the entire time. They were not very happy with her. I even told her in the lastest letter that It's fine if she doesn't want to be friends and I understand if she wants nothing to do with me. Talk about Karma! I tried calling her back, to get up a date, and got nothing in return. my thoughts exactly....why are you emailing her? If not, then perhaps she wasn't the girl you thought she was. That she is not interested in any sort of friendship with you. She doesn't give me any respect. She doesn't. I tried calling her back, to get up a date, and got nothing in return. Time to delete her email and put her in the past. But I later found out it was actually more than a friendship. The woman I fell in love with 10 years ago has clearly left the planet. She doesn't want to have anything to do with you. I've taken the higher road and I'm still getting the short end of the stick. I sent her an email letting her know that and asking what to do with these photos. Geez... if you told you you had important photos and she hasn't responded over and over, I guess you can throw the stuff away with no conscience. We both know that. I have had several exgirlfriends who have never had a problem keeping in touch with me. I've moved on and I'm not looking for ANYTHING from her. I know I was the same, my ex fiancée wanted to give me back an engagement ring, at the time I couldn’t accept it back as I was in denial, and now we went into NC, so she’s still got the ring, I don’t know if I ever want it back, maybe later as a memory, but not now. Now it's about finding out WHY SHE STILL TOTALLY IGNORES ME! It must feel like you have wasted 10 years. It's very sad I know. Well.. that's awful.. but i'm glad you got some closure and are able to send the pics to her sis. I now realize that secretly I had wanted her to pick up her stuff just to get to talk to her, talk over the breakup instead of NC, and get some closure. His people subtly try to convince you to talk to him. ... No one wants to enter into a relationship with an ex still lurking in the background. One of my ex's use to do this, he said he just wanted to be my friend, however, there were too many lies and too many betrayals for me to ever want anything to do with him. There could be all manner of reasons why she does not contact you, perphaps she feels resentment torwards you that things have not worked out the way she planned ( even though you are not to blame), perhaps its guilt over the break-up, perhaps she feels that you may want to get back together even though you have stated you don't. But then I recently found all these pictures of hers that I had no clue I still had. At some point, in the ensuing weeks or months following the end of the relationship, your now ex-girlfriend can cut off contact with and flat out ignore you. I did decide to not bother with her anymore after getting no response for such a long period of time. It thereforeeee hurts us that women dont look at things the same way, it seems like they flick a switch from loving to not loving. However this is where I am confused. Now the ball is in her court. Not only do you have the end of an intimate relationship to worry about, but it feels like your very existence is being rejected too. I'd like her to respect it. I'm sure she reads it, but she refuses to respond! I sent her an email letting her know that and asking what to do with these photos. It seems incredibly imature to me. The consequences of being ignored by your ex can feel as if your whole relationship with your ex was a lie. I have a new girlfriend who I'm happy with anyway. She is starting to turn into my mother when it comes to guys. She is intentionaly not responding and is being purposely difficult. have you done a "read receipt" on the ones you have sent? Since she cheated on me shouldn't I be the one holding a grudge? if they want NC then that's fine, i won't hastle them to give them my stuff. You want to get to know her, you have a positive emotional interest in her. After three years I feel that she could have at least spoken to me by now. I don't know your ex, but from what I'm reading, you want something from her that she doesn't want to give. who knows in a few years when we've both moved on and the wounds have healed i wouldent mind having the engagement ring back. So me and my ex broke up in july. They were not very happy with her. She claimed he was just a friend. That possibility passed a long time ago. We were together for 10 years. Recently she started ignoring me like never before, she has never been this distant. Photos of her brother who has since passed away. I think you need to let her go. Could be a number of things, but her silence says enough. Try not to take it personally, no one knows what's in her head but her...and if she chooses not to share that information there's really nothing you can do. So in the here and now she has no emotional interest in you... Period ! Hard lines...but it's the only way I can move on and look forward. it woudl just make me feel uncomfortable. 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